Crime Prevention Association of NB Inc 25 Get support for your own feelings from a friend or professional you trust. • Let the person be in charge - Listen respectfully to what this person needs; don't try to take over. Don't give details about why you're concerned; just say that you want to be supportive. If the person doesn't want to talk, say that you are available whenever needed. • Offer support - Before you approach the person, find services in your area that might help if and when they are ready: - Don't expect to know all the answers. - Explore options together. - Ask direct questions like, "Do you want me to help you find someone to talk to?" or "Do you want to go somewhere safe?" If a child or a young person tells you that they are being abused • Believe the child. • Listen. Don't interrupt or judge. • React calmly. Don't ask for details. • Tell the child that the abuse is not their fault, and that it was right to tell you. • Write down what the child tells you in their own words. What to do if you suspect child abuse: If you know a child is being sexually abused, report it to the police immediately. In an emergency, call 911. Every province and territory has a law that says that any person who believes a child is being abused must report it.You will not get in trouble for making a report if you have reason to believe a child is being abused, even if it turns out that you were wrong. If you have questions about how to recognize child abuse, here are some things you can do: • Call your local child protection services. • Talk to a nurse, social worker, doctor or teacher. • Call the police. • Call the Kids' Help Line 1-800-387-KIDS (5437). http://www.phac-aspc.gc.ca WHAT TO DO IF SOMEONE YOU KNOW IS BEING ABUSED (continued)
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