www.cpanb-apcnb.ca Crime Prevention Association of NB Inc 7 What are the myths about bullying? Myth #1 - "Kids have got to learn to stand up for themselves." Reality - Young people who get up the courage to complain about being bullied are saying they’ve tried and can’t cope with the situation on their own. Treat bullying complaints as a call for help. In addition to offering support, it can be helpful to provide bullying victems with problem solving and assertiveness training to assist them in dealing with difficult situations. Myth #2 - "You should hit back - only harder." Reality - This could cause serious harm. People who bully are often bigger and more powerful than their victims. This also gives young people the idea that violence is a legitimate way to solve problems. Young people learn how to bully by watching adults use their power for aggression. Adults have the opportunity to set a good example by teaching young people how to solve problems by using their power in appropriate ways. Myth #3 - "It builds character." Reality - Young people who are bullied repeatedly, have low self-esteem and do not trust others. Bullying damages a person’s self-concept. Myth #4 - "Sticks and stones can break your bones but words can never hurt you." Reality - Scars left by name-calling can last a lifetime. Myth #5 - "That’s not bullying. They’re just teasing." Reality - Vicious taunting hurts and should be stopped. Myth #6 - "There have always been bullies and there always will be." Reality - By working together as parents, teachers and students we have the power to change things and create a better future. As a leading expert, Shelley Hymel, says, "It takes a whole nation to change a culture". Let’s work together to change attitudes about bullying. After all, bullying is not a discipline issue - it is a teaching moment. Myth #7 - "Kids will be kids." Reality - Bullying is a learned behaviour. Young people may be imitating aggressive behaviour they have seen on television, in movies or at home. Research shows that 93% of video games reward violent behaviour. Additional findings show that 25% of boys aged 12 to 17 regularly visit gore and hate internet sites, but that media literacy classes decreased the boys’ viewing of violence, as well as their acts of violence in the schoolyard. It is important for adults to discuss violence in the media with youth, so they can learn how to keep it in context. There is a need to focus on changing attitudes toward violence. Source : Government of Alberta Source : Government of Alberta
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